112 | How I Earned My Tears
My lifelong sense of exile and exclusion, specifically during Yizkor (memorial prayer) services at the synagogue is over.
For 58 years and 5 months, I had been excused from the room where I did not belong, but this time, I chose to stay behind. As others left, I experienced a profound sense of awe and found myself reflecting on my mother and the connection we shared.
Today I ponder on how I have earned my tears through love.
The unity within the sanctuary, knowing that each person present carried a missing part—their loved ones who have passed away. I felt solace and a deep sense of everlasting unity.
"Despite her absence, I laughed and cried, embracing the realization that I have earned my tears through loving fiercely."
– Karen Goldfinger Baker
This Week on Trauma Hiders Club Podcast:
· Choosing to stay during Yizkor service
· Feeling awe and reflection in the silence that followed
· Memories of my mother and her direct way of speaking
· Laughing and crying
· Recognizing the love I've poured into my relationships
· Finding unity and connection with fellow mourners
· Understanding the missing part in each of us
· The enduring legacy that unites us all
Related Episodes:
A Eulogy for My Mother
Grief and the Fear of Loss
Where High Achievers Get Through Shit - TOGETHER
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